HELP of Door County, Inc.

V&E can help parents who are separated, divorced or divorcing, or in paternity situations when...

▪ Children need to go from one parent to the other parent without the parents
meeting.
▪ Children's visits with a parent are restricted to monitored or structured
settings.
▪ A parent has been prevented from visiting his/her children in spite of a
visitation court order.
▪ A parent hasn't seen his/her children for some time and would like help in re-
establishing a relationship with them.
▪ A parent is having problems with children or a former spouse, and would like
help in resolving the problems.
▪ A parent is concerned about the children's safety during visits with the other
parent.
▪ A parent is facing divorce and wants help in finding a solution to custody and
visitation questions.

Both Supervised Visits and Supervised Exchanges are designed to assure that a child can have safe contact with parents without having to be put in the middle of the parents’ conflicts or any other problems.  It is the child’s need that is paramount in making any decisions regarding supervision of the visit or the exchange. However, there are also some significant benefits to parents.

It is a tool that can help families as they go through difficult and/or transitional times.  Some of the benefits for the various family members are as follows:

For the Children:

Supervised Visits and Exchanges allow the children to maintain a relationship with both of their parents.  They can anticipate the visits without the stress of worrying about what is going to happen, and enjoy their time in a safe, comfortable environment without being put in the middle of their parents’ conflict and/or other problems.

For the Parents or Guardians with whom the child resides:

The children’s primary guardian can feel comfortable allowing their children to have contact with their non-residential parent.   They can feel confident about the child’s safety without having to communicate or have contact with a person with whom they are in conflict or by whom they might be in conflict with. 

For the Non-Residential
Parent or relative:

They can be sure that their contact with the children does not have to be interrupted regardless of any personal or interpersonal problems they may be having or conflicts with the children’s caretaker(s).  If allegations have been made against them, they can visit without fear of any new accusations because there is someone present who can verify what happened during their time together.